I'm sure you're well aware by now that I have two daughters. Amelia and Nora are the lights of my life. This week has been a whirlwind, and as I type this, I am getting Amelia ready for her soccer tournament in a couple of hours. Through the madness and bustle of the complex, logistical nightmares that are our schedules, I wouldn't change any of it for anything!
The Bible tells us (Psalm 127:3), "Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him."
Even if scripture isn't your thing, the message is still one that resonates. In all civilizations throughout history, protecting women and children during battle has been the common practice. And of course it has - children are the legacy of our own existence. Things are a bit more complex in the world these day with gender roles and political turmoil. But I believe, as any good human would, the heart of this matter is that children are precious and should be protected.
I obviously love and am protective of my kids, but a more recently added layer to that intrinsic feeling has emerged. Now, other kids have come into our lives. My daughters' friends and team members are also at the heart of this whole thing. It's probably easier to say that you love your family and will protect it; and that's a very noble attitude. But what about others' kids? Do you feel protective of them as well? I certainly do.
As parents we are called not to just care for our own children, but we must protect ALL children. No, not just as a parents - as humans. It is a duty all adults must understand and value. They represent the next wave of societal contributors, thought-leaders, and innovators.
Let me take a quick step back: I'll be the first to admit, other kids annoy me a lot of the time. Mine even do some! They can be an inconvenience that I'd prefer not to have to deal with. But my feelings do not exactly matter when it comes to duty. We have an obligation to take care of them so they may grow up to take care of the world. Yeah, that's a mighty weighty responsibility, but it doesn't matter.
I would never give advice about what that means to you or how you interpret it. Maybe sometimes a heavy hand is needed for disclinary reasons. Others, a soft shoulder is required for empathy and support. I believe each person can decide for themselves how to accomplish "caring for children" (Obviously, aside from abuse, neglect, or harm).
So, during this season, when
school is back in session and sports tournaments are ramping up, we have to remember that we do much of what we do for our children. They are the greatest gift we could ever receive. Make sure you remember to treat them that way, even when it isn't very convenient to do so.
Have a nice weekend!
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